Evaluating Impacts on Professional Practice
Some way or
the other we will or have experience “ism(s)” in our life, either through
racism, classism, sexism, or other. I
get so angry and feel rejected when I feel as though I’m being discriminated
against. Living and growing up in the South, there are always days when you are
discriminated against, in the grocery store, mall, or work. About three months ago, around the holidays I
was helping out at a local day care center in which black and white children
attend. I was a fill in for a lady that
was out sick, I overheard one white lady say “who is that?” and “I hope she
don’t be here all the time?” as she brought her grandchild to the center. That kind of statement made me feel as though
I was in the wrong place and around the wrong type of people. I know it’s hard to deal with certain
situations, but it’s also hard trying to hold your tongue in your mouth; she
didn’t know me and I didn’t know her. I
had to stop and think and bring myself back to reality, not knowing that many people
intentionally say things to hurt people feelings. I did bring it to the attention of the
supervisor that was on duty at the time and she spoke with the lady.
I look at us as being all equal, but some look
at us as being less worthy and this can affect our sense of self.
As stated in
the text, young children also show signs of absorbing whatever societal norms,
stereotypes, and biases surround them concerning various aspects of their own
and others’ identities (Derman-Sparks & Edwards, 2010). So let’s be mindful and careful about what
comes out of our mouth, remember children do listen.
Reference:
Derman-Sparks, L. & Edwards,
J. (2010). Anti-Bias Education for Young Children and
Ourselves,
NAEYC. Washington, DC.
I am sorry this happened to you. There are still so many people in the world today that have not learned the importance of acceptance and love for all people. I have experienced similar things from the opposite side myself. My grandmother lives in an area that is very close to a predominantly African American area. I have gone to that area to go to certain stores and such on many occasions. There was a specific time that I overheard someone say, "THAT girl is in the wrong part of town!" I didn't acknowledge it and went on about my business but it was offensive.
ReplyDeleteThat is so hard to hear! I apologize that you had to deal with that. After the supervisor spoke to the lady, had you heard anything about the situation after that? Or was the situation dropped after she talked to the lady? If that is the case, I do not believe that was handled the right way.
ReplyDeleteYou bring up a good point that depending on where you are the discrimination, biases, and -isms may present themselves differently. I recently traveled to visit some family, and it was interesting to experience the different cultures. I didn't travel far, but the dominant culture was different. I saw discrimination in a whole new way. That is a point we can all take with us into our work, as it can help us to better understand where children are coming from.
ReplyDeleteJanet,
ReplyDeleteI am sorry this happened to you. There is no excuse for that type of behavior. It's so sad to realize that there are still people who don't accept and appreciate all cultures, ethnic backgrounds and people regardless of who they are. Thank you for sharing such a personal story with us.
Jodi